Monday, December 8, 2008

Inspirational tips and specials to get you through the holiday season!

Hello Dear Singers!

Here are some inspirational tips and specials to get you through the holiday season!

"The thought impressed upon the mind is like a seed in the soil...what are you creating?"

It's that time of year to be grateful for all we have. A time to count our blessings - whatever our circumstances are. Our world teaches us to look at our outward circumstances and show gratitude, but true gratitude can only be felt if it begins in the receiving heart. True gratitude brings confidence, the magical ingredient evident in all successful singers.

Naturally, the voice carries the energy, power and essence of our thoughts. Unfortunately, many of us don't have very nice thoughts about our voice. We're afraid that if we actually give ourselves credit for sounding good, that we might be wrong and look silly.

It all began when we were young and free and vocally expressive at the top of our little growing lungs, when some OTHER person unexpectedly came up to us and said something painful to us, like, "Oh, you're making too much noise, be quiet!" Whether it happened to us, or we saw somebody else go through this humiliation, we chose at this pivotal moment, to never endure this sort of pain again. Our solution: to allow that "critical voice" that initially came from
somebody else, to enter our mind and become us. We figured this voice would protect us. "I'll make sure I catch my mistakes before anybody else can!" We thought. So we hired an "inner critic" and allowed it to go to work! Pretty soon, we forgot that the "inner critic," was just a defense mechanism, and we started to believe everything it said, as if it were us!


"Inner verbal abuse is destructive behavior"

What we failed to realize was that every time that inner critic spoke within us, we recreated that same pain and fear we had that first day we felt criticized from someone else, or watched them get criticized! So our plan to protect our voice literally became a jeopardizing tool that
chipped away at our inner peace and freedom, slowly leading us to...


WAIT! It is so unlike me to get all depressing like that!


O.K. What can we do to overcome the inner critic (which is found in the left hemisphere of the brain)?


How about FIRING it, since we hired it for no good reason in the first place! How about creating something new to believe in that might actually do some good and get us the vocal confidence we want?


"But Dot, I've been letting this negative inner-dialogue dominate my thoughts for years - and now all of a sudden, I'm expected to get rid of it? HOW?"


Tips for firing the "INNER CRITIC"

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Sincerely,

Dot
Vocal Empowerment Coach
Dot's Voice Studios
www.dotsvoicestudios.com

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